Bahá’í Marriage — an institution for unity

Marriage is ordained by God and intended to cultivate unity and well-being between two souls, forming a sacred foundation for the raising of children. This unity becomes the bedrock of family cohesion and flows outward, contributing to the harmony of community and society alike.

Marriage is at once physical and spiritual — a union in which two souls are joined eternally, ever striving to "improve the spiritual life of each other" ('Abdu'l-Bahá). In this profound companionship, each partner is called to "develop their inherent God-given potentialities and to contribute to an ever-advancing civilization." (Universal House of Justice)

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Marriage Preparation

Before marriage, couples are encouraged to come to know one another's character and background, ensuring they are well suited as both partners and parents. When the time is right, they are free to choose one another without interference from family or outside parties — for the choice belongs to them alone. Yet in a spirit of unity, gratitude, and deep respect for the gift of life bestowed by their parents, the couple then seeks parental consent before proceeding. With consent secured, they become engaged and turn their hearts toward the wedding ahead.

At the heart of the ceremony, each partner makes a solemn declaration before witnesses: *"We will all, verily, abide by the Will of God"* — simple words that carry profound spiritual weight. Weddings are conducted under the guidance of Spiritual Assemblies and, where required, in accordance with civil law as well.
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Starting with Me (Ed.3)

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Equality in Marriages and Families

The equality of women and men is not merely an abstract principle — it is a living reality to be practised within the home, shaping every dimension of married life. It applies equally to the relationship between partners and to the way daughters and sons are raised. Justice, reciprocity, and genuine cooperation are the hallmarks of this new pattern of marriage and family, distinct from the models of the past.

The Bahá'í teachings offer a luminous image for this vision: humanity is likened to a bird whose two wings are woman and man. Only when both wings are strong and balanced can the bird soar — and so it is with the family, the community, and civilisation itself.
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Ruhi Book 12 Unit 1

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Maintaining Marriages

Married couples are called to invest wholeheartedly in their marriage and family. While divorce is permitted, it is strongly discouraged. Before any such step is taken, the couple seeks guidance from a Spiritual Assembly, and often from marriage counselling and trusted friends.

When a divorce is formally requested, the Assembly makes every effort toward reconciliation. If those efforts fail, the couple must separate for a full year — a waiting period in which reconciliation remains possible and love may yet be rekindled. Only then is a Bahá'í divorce granted.
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Coral & Pearls